(i.e. the conversations you wish your parents had with you)

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When Yes Doesn’t Actually Mean Yes

By on October 5, 2014


I’ve started thanking people when they say “no” to me.

Potential clients, friends, people I’d like to interview for www.reclaimingmalerolemodels.com, people who’s houses I’ve asked to stay at…

It feels really good to me.

No is an extremely powerful stance to take. It can free up tremendous amounts of stuck energies, get people out of depressions, bring in a lot of money, and create deepened connection.

No creates space for the truest kind of yes.

I’m committed to searching out the nos that aren’t being said, whether by myself or the person in front of me, and creating a safe space for them to be voiced.

What gets to happen in the world when EVERYONE feels safe saying “no”?

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Giving the Shoes Off Our Feet

By on September 12, 2014

I carried my $1500 laptop in its case as I walked toward the dinner place in Salt Lake last night. I felt a little bit safer about bringing it with me than I did leaving it in the car at


More Sex in One Simple Step

By on August 25, 2014

Talking about sex is great. We all arrived in the world because of it, no exceptions, so it’s a major bummer to see the treatment (or lack of) that it gets. And it’s more than a bummer. Some serious shit


Shame, sex, and suicide: My path to open-heartedness

By on August 14, 2014

[Originally published on The Huffington Post] At one point in my life I was nearly a dead man. Not by someone else’s hand, but by my own. It was practically an accident that I survived my second year of college,

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My gift to you…

By on June 20, 2014

I feel like I’ve been posting some pretty dark content lately. What’s true for me though, is that I love my life! What lights my fire… I feel it burning there in my body when I check in. There’s a heat