Bob Schwenkler


Men work with me when they are ready to uplevel their careers, relationships, and lives.

They are entrepreneurs, coaches, managers, teachers, fathers, straight men, and gay men.

Many of them have achieved extraordinary success in the past as Army Sniper Instructors, Hollywood Directors, and private yoga instructors to Saudi Arabian Princes… but they ultimately moved on to pursue greater fulfillment in their lives and careers.

Regardless of their background, what all of my clients hold in common is a commitment to build heart aligned and profitable careers, reclaim passion and intimacy in their sex lives and relationships, and live in full alignment with their deepest life purpose.

What is Coaching?

After coaching hundreds of men from across the globe around the most intimate aspects of their lives, businesses, and relationships I’ve witnessed firsthand that the only thing that ever really holds us back is ourselves.

The foundation of coaching is Honesty. Honesty about all facets of who you are and the state of your life – something many people spend immense amounts of time, money, and energy avoiding.

Next we craft a compelling vision for your future – one based on what you truly want, not what you think you can get.

From here and ONLY here you get accurate information on the obstacles that hold you back from where you want to be.

Coaching dissolves these obstacles and closes the gap between present moment and future vision.

What is the Investment?

The majority of my time is spent free of charge with people in one or two-off life changing conversations. These conversations cost only the time we spend.

Through our time spent together some of these people realize that their hearts are calling them deeper – that partnering up together as coach and client is the next step to powerfully stepping into a truly inspired future.

Together my clients and I hold these coaching partnerships as sacred spaces. Significant financial and energetic investment are required to enter.

Depending on the program the time investment ranges from 6 months to one year. The financial investment ranges from US $4,500 to $30,000. The energetic investment is consistent, truth-driven action – even and especially in the face of fear and doubt.

My work with clients is ROI driven – whether quantifiable or experiential. Past clients have tripled their revenue, re-ignited the passion in their relationships, and found deep inner peace.

Want that for yourself?

Click here to reach out. We’ll discuss what you’re creating in your life and if scheduling a one-off life changing conversation is the right next step for you.

Upcoming Workshops

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The Brotherhood: A Leadership Training for Men Who Want to Master Their Careers, Relationships, and Lives

“My business is successful!”

“Things are better than ever with my wife.”

“People are telling me I’m speaking a way they’ve never heard me speak before. It’s powerful stuff.”

Click here to learn more about The Brotherhood.


Your coaching is Jedi-like.

The way you go about things is subtle.

It’s the difference between a martial artist who’s way is to use a lot of energy and force, they’re very rigid and very raw. But when you watch a master, a 10th degree black belt, every movement follows the law of least effort. It looks subtle and effortless but the results are extremely powerful.

Rasul A. Davis, Holistic Life Coach | The Total Wellness Guy


My business has tripled over the past few months!

Will Schneider | New York’s Premier Private and Corporate Yoga Provider

Nabill Idrisi

Your clear vision helped save my client relationship!

I had the calls [that we had discussed] today, and they broke new ground for me. Telling my client the honest truth was one of the hardest things I did in the past few weeks, but it led to a deeper place in our conversation and relationship.

I have to thank you for your resources and you yourself as a resource. Your clear vision of the honest conversation I had to have helped save my client relationship!

Nabill Idrisi | Productivity & Wellness Coach


You model what you encourage your clients to practice.

I watched your video with our daughter, and took the opportunity to explain to her the importance of super open transparent communication. It’s cool to be able to tell her that her dad and I are working with people who practice what they preach so vulnerably and openly.

Thanks for being so committed to your work and your love to cause that ripple effect to our 8 week old daughter.

Laura and Jeremy


We’ve laughed more in the last 6 months than we had in the last 6 years.

6 months ago we were contemplating divorce, now we’re talking about starting a family. We don’t get stuck like we did before, we’re making decisions together, not individually. Things happen seamlessly and without much effort.

There’s a lot more grace to understand each other and laugh about our differences. It’s been really refreshing to get back everything that we put into coaching and more!

Mike and Lauren


I’ve lost the feelings of inadequacy and fear.

All because I allowed myself to be vulnerable. I knew when I was over my head and when to seek help. I have restored confidence in my personal power and handle all situations with confidence. Even my co-workers have commented on how much more self aware and secure I seem.

Jim F.


I’ve taken massive action in my life and feel on my path.

I feel powerful. I greatly believe that I can overcome my relationship challenges. I have also reached out to multiple people who are struggling with porn addictions to help them, and have booked my first speech on the effects of porn for 400 students at a high school in Belgium.

I want to thank you for taking such a courageous and loving lead in the area of relationships. You have cast a light on what is possible for me.

Vincent v.A.

I feel the best I’ve ever felt.

I’ve never had someone really, really dedicate their full awareness in the way you do. You’re not giving me advice. You create space and it forces me to find the truest answer deep within myself.

What my life would be like if we weren’t working together? I don’t even want to imagine that scenario. My world has blossomed, there have been so many new doors opened in the last few months. It’s brought me out of my shell and opened me to re-finding myself.

You’ve helped me see that in pushing through fear there’s always something better on the other side, to not ever let that feeling hold me back from allowing new possibilities into my life.

I’m so grateful to have found you. I feel extremely blessed to be working with you.

Josh McMurtrie | The North County Photography Guy

I see you as a really powerful person.

You have an immense capacity to feel. Whether that’s to feel what’s going on inside yourself, to feel into someone else, or to encourage someone else to feel, I respect that aspect of your work and how you continually show up in the world this way.

How we feel in our bodies is how we relate to the world. You help people experience what it is like to use their bodies and intuition as their ultimate barometer in life.

Sam Hershberger | Life Coach for Extraordinary People


I don’t have to fall on my sword like I thought I had to.

I thought my dream AND I had to be sacrificed in order to maintain any semblance of integrity.

You’ve helped me realize that 1. The stories I tell myself about whether or how it will work are often completely unfounded and 2. The best thing I can do is just take action. The only reason I am where I am with Unbox Love is because I’ve taken action.

Whenever we speak you pull me out of my head and back into reality where I’m able to experience control, calm, peace, and reassurance that I have control over my life, that I’m capable of great things.

Nate Bagley | Founder of Unbox Love

I LOVE being your client. It is one of the best decisions I’ve made.

Clément Frenay | Adventure Coaching / Clarity Expert


Here’s my greatest desire: That all men will speak with my colleague, Bob, and then Bob passes my phone number on to the single men once they are finished working with him…

Mandy Weinberger | Registered Holistic Nutritionist and Transformational Health Coach

My male clients are entrepreneurs, coaches, managers, teachers, fathers, straight men, and gay men.

Some of them have achieved extraordinary success in past lives as Army Sniper Instructors, Hollywood Directors, and private yoga instructors to Saudi Arabian Princes.

What they all hold in common is a commitment to follow their callings to build heart aligned businesses, reclaim passion and intimacy in their sex lives and relationships, and live in full alignment with their deepest life purpose.

Past clients have tripled their revenue, re-ignited the passion in their relationships, and found deep levels of inner peace.

Want that for yourself?

Click here and let’s talk.