Bob Schwenkler


Women work with me because they want more balance, ease, and intimacy in their lives.

I work with high performing and high earning women in business – women who have achieved significant professional success and are ready to translate that success into their personal lives and relationships.

They’ve checked off the boxes of professional and financial success, yet something’s still missing.

The paradox is that what’s allowed their success in business is precisely what holds them back in other areas of their lives.

They’ve come to the realization that the racetrack of career hasn’t brought them all that was promised. They want their lives to feel as good on the inside as they look on the outside. They are ready to cultivate more life balance, and intimacy and passion in their relationships.

What is Coaching?

After talking in depth to hundreds of women and men from across the globe about the most intimate aspects of their lives, businesses, and relationships I’ve witnessed firsthand that the only thing that ever really holds us back is ourselves.

The foundation of coaching is Honesty. Honesty about all facets of who you are and the state of your life – something many people spend immense amounts of time, money, and energy avoiding.

Next we craft a compelling vision for your future – one based on what you truly want, not what you think you can get.

From here and ONLY here you get accurate information on the obstacles that hold you back from where you want to be.

Coaching dissolves these obstacles and closes the gap between present moment and future vision.

What is the Investment?

The majority of my time is spent free of charge with people in one or two-off life changing conversations. These conversations cost only the time we spend.

Through our time spent together some of these people realize that their hearts are calling them deeper – that partnering up together as coach and client is the next move to powerfully stepping into a truly inspired future.

Together my clients and I hold these coaching partnerships as sacred spaces. Significant financial and energetic investment are required to enter.

Depending on the program the time investment ranges from 6 months to one year. The financial investment ranges from US $4,500 to $30,000. The energetic investment is consistent, truth-driven action – even and especially in the face of fear and doubt.

My work with clients is ROI driven – whether quantifiable or experiential. Past clients have re-ignited the passion in their intimate relationships, deepened and healed relationships with their children, and created sustainable ease and balance between their personal and professional lives.

Want that for yourself?

Click here to reach out. We’ll discuss what you’re desiring in your life and if scheduling a one-off life changing conversation is the right next step for you.

Ecstasy Through Intimacy

Ecstasy Through Intimacy is a full day coed workshop for singles and couples who want to expand their capacity to love – both within their romantic relationship as well as everywhere else in their lives.

It is a journey from intimacy with the self to intimacy with the other.

This workshop is for those who are ready to create a relationship that is founded upon the absolute regard for the authenticity and well-being of yourself AND the other.

While other modalities work on changing or fixing, Ecstasy Through Intimacy is a deep dive into the practices of transforming conflict, anger, frustration, resentment, and disconnection into open-heartedness, play, and even turn-on.

Baltimore – June 24, 2017

NYC – June 25, 2017



When I would get into conversations with my former business coaches I knew exactly what was going to happen.

I could easily come up with excuses and weave my way through the session so that I didn’t have to actually make any change.

With you I can’t hide. I can’t come up with excuses or play my way around the topic. I get on a call with you and something will come up and I’m like “Whoa. Wow. He just said that.” And it’s always so right.

Nobody else has ever said some of the things you’ve said to me. I don’t think anyone else ever would either, and that’s a good thing. It’s a sign that you really care about me.

You constantly surprise me. I don’t know what to expect when I enter a conversation with you.

Katya Sarmiento


6 months ago we were contemplating divorce, now we’re talking about starting a family.

We’ve laughed more in the last 6 months than we had in the last 6 years. We don’t get stuck like we did before, we’re making decisions together, not individually. Things happen seamlessly and without much effort.

There’s a lot more grace to understand each other and laugh about our differences. It’s been really refreshing to get back everything that we put into coaching and more!

Mike and Lauren


My partner and I are making progress for the first time in my life!

There have been ups and down and there have also been more vulnerable and clear conversations than I can remember – tears, laughter, and progress.

I have learned I am capable of being understanding, clear, and NON reactive; that I am actually quite skilled at using strategies and resources to help alleviate suffering (especially my own).

Reflecting on suffering has led me to meditate more consistently. The more I meditate, the more I notice a surrender to “the fight” that has so often dominated my thoughts and life.


And this feels so healthy and re-energizing. I am confident I am more clearly and effectively loving… starting with myself and trickling on to my partner and all people I come in contact with.

M.L. (name and actual photo withheld by request)


I said “YES!”

I came into this coaching trying to cultivate a relationship and ended up cultivating a real relationship with myself. I’m 100% sure that without you, I never would have had a heart, mind and soul prepared for this. Thank you so much!!!!!

Sarah Webster


You model what you encourage your clients to practice.

I watched your video with our daughter, and took the opportunity to explain to her the importance of super open transparent communication. It’s cool to be able to tell her that her dad and I are working with people who practice what they preach so vulnerably and openly.

Thanks for being so committed to your work and your love to cause that ripple effect to our 8 week old daughter.

Laura and Jeremy

What makes you so powerful as a coach

is that you’re willing to go there yourself, in your own life. You can only take clients as deep as you have gone. You model that which you expect from the world around you.

We’re only as sick as our darkest secret. We’ll always be running and reacting until we really face our fears.

Your magic for coaching is that you give people full permission to really look at those dark places. You’re really listening to what’s behind the words. You have the courage to go with people into the places that will give them the true freedom they’re seeking.

Julie Blake


You are changing my life.

I’m learning about the power, beauty and reality of my own yearning to be met in every inch I have denied in me and about the power of being met there with presence and essence.

You are a guardian of the hearts of women and a blueprint holder of masculine wholeness in vulnerability, strength, and integrity.

Mariajose Alcázar | Associate Director at Earth Care