3 years ago today I left Olympia, WA, the home I’d built for myself for 12 years, to create a new life for myself.
3 years deep into this new life and career path and I still regularly live with feelings of not enough. In fact, in some regards they’ve only gotten louder as I’ve progressed.
As I reflect back on what I’ve created over the past 3 years it really highlights the words some part whispers or shouts from within me: “You don’t make enough money.” “You don’t have enough clients.” “You haven’t had a big enough impact.” “You should be farther along.” “Your work is shit.” “You are shit.”
Particularly considering that since that day 3 years ago I have… Read more…
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